We always think, somehow, that we're not the one being tempted. Especially when it isn't an obvious temptation, like the temptation to lie or steal or cheat on taxes or commit adultery. It's easy to find justifications, to stumble through the world stepping on people's toes and somehow remain it's their fault.
It's easy, but it isn't right.
The first thing my mom was told when taking ballroom dancing was that she had to follow the man she was dancing with (often, in fact, mostly my father). If he stepped on her toes, it was her fault because she wasn't following well enough. And the same principle probably applies to life, or so we think. If your toes are being stepped on, it's definitely your fault because hey were simply in the way.
How rude.
"He who would retain his life shall lose it, and he who shall lose his life shall keep it." Jesus said it, and He, as usual, was all too correct. To lose one's own life, to be absorbed into the Church, is to lose all rights of protest and critique. The Church will err, it will hurt you, and it will sin. People, whether Christian or not, will err, will hurt you, and will sin. Don't worry, God put them there specifically to transform you.
"So count it pure joy when men revile you..." not, in fact, because you're being reviled and thus persecuted. No, rather, count it pure joy because that reviling is itself turning you into what Christ wants you to be.
It's easy, but it isn't right.
The first thing my mom was told when taking ballroom dancing was that she had to follow the man she was dancing with (often, in fact, mostly my father). If he stepped on her toes, it was her fault because she wasn't following well enough. And the same principle probably applies to life, or so we think. If your toes are being stepped on, it's definitely your fault because hey were simply in the way.
How rude.
"He who would retain his life shall lose it, and he who shall lose his life shall keep it." Jesus said it, and He, as usual, was all too correct. To lose one's own life, to be absorbed into the Church, is to lose all rights of protest and critique. The Church will err, it will hurt you, and it will sin. People, whether Christian or not, will err, will hurt you, and will sin. Don't worry, God put them there specifically to transform you.
"So count it pure joy when men revile you..." not, in fact, because you're being reviled and thus persecuted. No, rather, count it pure joy because that reviling is itself turning you into what Christ wants you to be.